Intimacy vs. purity

okay before i left out for church this mourning i was watching the fresh prince of bel air on tbs and it was the episode that will tricked that one girl into fake marrying him so he could get some, now earlier in the episode he consulted the idea of sex with uncle Phil

and he said plainly no sex before marriage and that any fool can lay down and do the thing, but intimacy takes a real commitment and thats the difference between regular boyfriend and girlfriend couples they're just dating a husband and wife are committed and i think alot of people either don't know that or don't care. and some of you out there that have given away your virginity most likely you're not still with that person for most people, and I'm sure that for women mostly thats why they act and feel the way they do now a days because they gave their previous boyfriends they're body their sacred purity and the women that have gone through a few relationships where they had sex and after some time they break up I'm pretty sure they feel a sense of insecurity 

unloved and mistrust because intimacy is sacred it is, but in today's society its not viewed or even thought of as something you save for the person that your commit to for life. and some are walking around thinking that the one their with may be the one but oh lets have sex just to see how strong our relationship can be or will be and thats guys and girls. like what lawrence fisher said in the movie boyz in the hood, any fool can lay down and make a baby but it takes a real man to raise a child. and intimacy is supposed to be for 2 people that are going to fully commit to one another for life, and the way thats done is for 2 people to get married. plain and simple 

and its been said that married couples (men and women) have a stronger commitment toward one another therefore and its been reported that they have better sex if you really wanna know. because the love is there, the commitment is there, and the faithfulness is there. and they know each other better than anybody else. and its a shame because alot of people and not just young people think that being in these meaningless high school type relationships playing house, think that going through a few relationships like that will eventually find you toward the one you truly are to be with, and thats wrong. the one you will truly be with will wait and commit his or her life fully to you and by marrying you forsaking anyone else before they even try to have that intimate relationship with you. and besides God made intimacy for married couples.